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Vinnie Chand #1471090
Red Onion State Prison
P.O Box 970
Pound, Virginia 24279

If you are reading this profile, you have just taken your first step in finding someone that will make you laugh and help you forget about the complicated social scene filled with crazy, narcissistic, judgemental, self-absorbed people who seem more like aliens. You can meet someone online or at a bar and there's a good chance they have the attention span of a squirrel and are so caught up in their own lives and needs that they forget how to be attentive and just listen to you. They forget how to be comforting and supportive. They forget to put you first and make you the center of their universe. They may have a decent job and stability, but the love and unbreakable connection you see in movies like Titanic and The Notebook are completely absent. After a few years, the lukewarm love and passion will fizzle out and you'll feel like you are missing something. If you want to connect with someone who will listen to you, appreciate you and make you the center of their universe, reach out to me and I will take you by the hand.

My interests include politics, social issues, current events, business, entrepreneurship, domestic policy, foreign policy, different cultures, physical fitness, self-help books, cooking, traveling and great music and films. I love to extract knowledge and wisdom from others. I would describe myself as down to earth, intelligent, a deep thinker, sensitive, passionate, strong, thoughtful, kind hearted and misunderstood. I believe I possess an intellectual and spiritual depth and great sense of humor. I'm closer to an introvert than an extrovert and I'm a Scorpio if you're into zodiac signs.

I have reached out to the same people who have continually showed me that they are not loyal, honest, reliable or supportive. Consequently, I usually find myself disappointed and emotionally guarded. I really want to find a new friendships that have the potential to blossom into a relationship. I would also like to find friends that can make me laugh and stimulate me emotionally and intellectually.

I would like to find someone who will help me evolve and become a better person. I will respect you and your friendship. I will value your heart, mind and spirit while taking the time to listen to your inner most thoughts. I want to help you see the best in yourself as well. We all deserve to have at least one special person in our lives that will stand by our sides unconditionally, through the good times and the bad times. There are close to 6 billion people in the world. There has to be at least one special person out there for us to connect to. I once read this quote and it embodies the message I want to express to the person who took time out of their day to read my profile. "To the world you may just be one person, but to one person you may be the world."

I know a prison pen-pal website isn't the best place to find love or a friendship. Prison doesn't exactly attract the best and brightest or individuals who possess highly regarded virtues, however, there are a few good men with potential who have made mistakes and end up in the system. I know your family and friends may try to discourage you from reaching out to someone who's in prison, and if they do, it's because they love you and care about you. They're simply looking out for you and trying to protect you. There's a stigma and a stereotype about men in prison and for the most part, it's actually true, but I don't consider myself someone who falls into that category. I believe my pen-pal ad reflects that. There are a few pros of trying to build a relationship with someone in prison. For example, when you begin to date a guy in the real world, they may want to be physically intimate fairly soon and you never know whether they just want to use you for sex or if they genuinely like you and want a long-term relationship. At least with a guy in prison, you don't have to worry about someone using you for their own selfish needs and putting pressure on you. You can take your time to get to know that person and control the dynamics of the relationship. You actually have more power and control over a relationship when a man is incarcerated. Use that to your advantage. The pro for me would be that I get to find someone who isn't overly judgemental and was willing to give me a chance when most people wouldn't. Someone who stands by your side and supports you when you have very little to offer and you're at your lowest point in life. It's a blessing to find someone like that because it's easy to find someone when you're at your best and times are good. To find that one special person who will stand by your side through the good times and bad times is very difficult in today's world. A guy in the real world is busy with work, friends, social media and many other distractions and temptations. I have my entire day to dedicate to you. To think about you, write you long thoughtful emails and talk to you on the phone. I'm also getting prepared to come home and begin the process of rebuilding my life, achieving my goals and pursuing my dreams.

Sometimes we have so much love to give and no one to give it to or we have someone to give that love to, but they don't cherish and appreciate us. If you sometimes feel that way, please know that you are not alone and maybe you no longer have to feel that way anymore. No one should have to feel alone in this world and no one should have to continue living with the pain of a broken heart. A broken heart can be mended when you open your heart to new love and friendships. Do not allow the fear of being hurt or rejected prevent you from finding someone special. There's nothing wrong with deviating from conventional wisdom and avenues to find love or friendship. Love and friendships are necessities for life. Without them, we are like a rose without water and sunlight.

I know it's challenging for someone to make new friends or have a romantic relationship with someone who is currently incarcerated. With that being said, friendship and love are matters of the heart and soul and sometimes, you can't control who you have a connection with or who you fall in love with. Love and lifelong friendships are mysterious, magical, powerful and can blossom in war, tragedy and the most hopeless of places. If you just want to be friends without any romance, I'm open to just friendship as well. I hope you will look past my current trials and tribulations. We all make mistakes and have the ability to overcome and grow as a result of our experiences. I may have made some mistakes, but I'm not a murderer, I'm not a rapist, I'm not a child molester, I'm not a gang member, I'm not drug addict, I'm not a drug dealer, I'm not a low-life thug and I've never harmed a woman or child. If you would like to contact me, please write me a letter or send me an email by going to Jpay.com or downloading the app to your smartphone. You have to sign up and create an account. To add me to your contact list, you have to type in my name and I.D. number. ( Vinnie Chand I.D. #1471090 ) The emails cost $9.95 for 40 of them, but if you do the math, it's cheaper than postage stamps and more convenient. Jpay's email system is not instantaneous like a regular email provider. It's slow and can take anywhere from a few hours to a few days for them to screen and release our emails. If you feel more comfortable writing me a letter, that's fine too. I can also call you too if you ever want to talk on the phone. You should also know that I plan to move back to my hometown, Eugene, Oregon on Westcoast when I get released and may relocate to Seattle or Los Angeles at a later time. I should be released anytime within the next 24 months. I look forward to hearing from you. Thank you for taking the time to read my profile.

Race: South Asian, East Indian
Date of Birth: 11-2-82
Height: 5'11"
Earliest Release Date: 2020
Maximum Release Date: 3/10/2048
Religion: Spiritual
Would you like letters from both sexes? Both
(This does not refer to sexual orientation)     
Education: Bachelor's Degree in Marketing
Occupation before prison: Sales, marketing
Activities in prison: Physical Fitness, Reading, Education, Writing and Legal Work
Can you receive and send emails? Yes, via www.JPay.com or you can download the Jpay app to your smartphone


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